(5) Healthy Ways To Be A Single Man
In this brief article, I aim to share (5) tips on how a man can embrace being single - the positive way. Indeed, the positive way! Being single doesn't need to be a negative, painful, or angry experience, and it really shouldn't be. Here are the actions I believe you should take starting with one of the most important . . .
(1) Women Are NOT The Enemy
Heaven forbid you are that type of man! However, if you find yourself feeling regret, resentment, or frustration towards a woman from your past, remember that she is NOT the same as the women you encounter daily. She doesn’t deserve to be mistreated because of someone else's actions. Even if you disagree with the mindset of many modern-day women, there's nothing you can do to change their views. So why waste your energy? Why bash or degrade them for doing things they aren’t going to stop doing anyway? This is why it is so important that young men understand embracing the Red Pill philosophy simply means understanding how women operate and accepting it. Accepting it doesn’t mean you put up with it, it just means you acknowledge it. You focus on the things you can change (your fitness, health, finances, goal, future, etc.) and stop worrying about things you cannot change (how women act).
Being a single man doesn’t mean you have to harbor hatred or dislike towards women. Women are not the enemy! The real issues stem from toxic culture we have and the influence of social media. Those are the root of many problems today. Be fair! Keep in mind that the woman you encounter is stepping into this chaotic world just like you, hoping to find a man with more than 5 functioning brain cells. So, extend her some grace as well!
If you find yourself in a relationship with a woman, treat her with kindness. Strive to be a gentleman. Make sure she has a great time. Disregard any advice that suggests you should feel better at her expense. Ultimately, she is still a human being. Of course, it’s important to establish boundaries and remain true to yourself, but I believe that when a man views being with women as a privilege (rather than a right or a necessity), he learns to appreciate her more fully. This approach will help him stay mentally balanced, emotionally stable, and tactful in his interactions with her. Even if things don’t last forever, you can take comfort in the wonderful experiences you’ve had. Since 2022, I have no regrets about dating or getting to know any of the women I encountered. Why is that? Because I didn’t approach it with the expectation that marriage would be the end goal or that she needed to be my source of peace - I already have my peace - I simply wanted HER. I wanted to share moments and time with her, which sometimes lasted for 2 years, other times for 6 months, and occasionally just for 3 days. Yet, I have no regrets about any of it. And I wish them all the best!
(2) Now, That’s A Vibe
If you've seen any of the videos on my website, you probably know that I advocate for a home atmosphere that is cozy, tidy, and enjoyable. How can you achieve this? Start by taking an online quiz to discover your interior design style. Figure out what types of items you enjoy showcasing. Read. Watch videos of men who embody the lifestyle you aspire to. Your home is where you unwind and celebrate your hard work throughout the day - it should look, sound, and feel incredible! It’s the ONLY place on earth you don’t have to share with the public. It’s also the ONLY place you have to go to after the parties, family gatherings, and distractions of the world - so why not make it a place that visually and emotionally welcomes you?
(3) Be Good To You
Another great approach for a single man to stay healthy is by exercising, being financially savvy, eating well, getting enough rest, and engaging in activities that bring you joy. It doesn't matter if your source of happiness is visiting an art museum, browsing the shelves at Barnes & Noble for a good book, or jogging in the central park; just focus on what gives you a sense of fulfillment.
(4) Get Out!
Absolutely, step outside! Going out isn't limited to visiting a bar, spending time with friends, or embarking on a solo road trip. I would even suggest that you consider engaging in volunteer activities. Why? Because staying at home can get dull, especially if you work remotely and lack a reason to venture out; participating in community service will surround you with others and assist you in making new friends.
(5) Keep An Open-Mind
Finally, I believe that another way for a man to embrace being single "the right way" is by learning to be adaptable. Notice that I didn’t say easy to control, indecisive, or uncertain. Being adaptable simply means being open to the possibility that your current situation may not be your ultimate destination in life. You might choose that marriage, raising children, and/or caring for family is the path for you. And guess what? There’s absolutely nothing wrong with any of those choices. If you determine that your current situation is exactly how you want it, then take responsibility for it, own it, and live your life according to your own vision. You don’t have to be open-minded to everything, somethings are set in stone, but just be flexible if you want.
